Looking to make friends… Get sexual requests…

So I decide that I should try and make some local friends now that I’m getting divorced and while I love the friends I have they’re in Los Angeles… As the notion of becoming a hermit or loner aren’t all that appealing I figure I should expand my pool of friends and try to make […]

A walk, giving up male privilege, and passing…

Yesterday was quite a big step for me in terms progress I guess and also a bit of a startling revelation in terms of giving up male privilege and  passing. So let’s start with the walk or rather getting ready for the walk, in general I’ve either gone out with makeup on or in “boy” […]

Let’s Talk Sex! Err… Sexual Orientation that is…

After coming out as a trans woman some people assume I’m heterosexual now.  I guess it makes sense since we do live in a heteronormative society but it’s still a bit frustrating for people to assume that. Doing so implies my feelings for any past partners who were women were lies… That’s just an awful […]

Going out with the family

Saturday was the first time I went out with the family… Up until now I’ve either gone out alone or more androgynous/boyish as it’s what makes my wife more comfortable. Saturday was different as we were going to a Beauty Event for trans and gender non conforming people at the LGBTQ Center. Initially I thought […]

Hormones and breast sensitivity…

I thought I’d specifically talk about this because it’s one of the things that I really didn’t learn much about in all my researching… Maybe it’s taken for granted and I should have assumed it was a part of the package…  In any case I thought I’d talk about it  a bit. It’s funny that […]